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People just drift away, don’t they?

I took refuge in the world of writing and blogging, thinking that everything will be different here. And yes, it was! I have loved here always.

But just like the real world, I have lost some of the virtual friends too. When I started blogging, I did not know anyone here, and there were few people who would be always here for me, would read my posts, let me know how they feel about it. I loved reading their blogs too. But where are they?

They seem to have just vanished. I keep visiting their blogs- no recent posts! I fill up a comment on the “Contact us” page, but there is no reply. I guess they have just stopped blogging.

Then there are people who just vanish away, because of the wordpress glitches, I though they had gone away too, until of course I open my spam folder only to know they have been always there. Seriously, what is up with this spam thing?

So before I find anyone else missing from this virtual world, I’d just want to say thank you for always listening to my ramblings. You do mean a lot to me whether I say it or not!

And also please keep checking your spam folders! (Just in case!)

 

65 responses to “WordPress World.”

  1. houstonphotojourney Avatar

    I know it’s weird, I didn’t even know I had a WordPress spam folder until someone asked me to check mine! Then I saw lots! At least now I know to look there😂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Hahaha
      I know, it’s just good to check it once every now and then.

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  2. shubhamd96 Avatar

    We are always there for each other… this is just another friend circle with similar madness.
    Stay happy dear 🙂

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Yes, I know right. the safest place I think. 🙂

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  3. hell0chloe Avatar

    How do I check the spam folder? I didn’t even know there was one!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      There is one under the settings page. You will find the pending, spam folder and other settings there.

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  4. apassersby Avatar

    I also missed so many people here. I delete five times the blogs created new out of personal problems.i created new names. But I followed them back.. But I missed so many..I stopped writing for months too

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      But you are back, so I think you didn’t loose interest.

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      1. apassersby Avatar

        Yup

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  5. kalyansparks Avatar

    I missed akhila..but I don’t know how to contact her..sometimes I feel that she is avoiding me..but I don’t know the reason..but I like her posts very much..I missed communicating with her

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Try and contact her then.

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      1. kalyansparks Avatar

        Contact??? How????

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        May be there is a contact her page on her site.

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      3. kalyansparks Avatar

        I should try then..any plans today for you

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      4. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        Nope, not as yet.

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      5. kalyansparks Avatar

        Whenever you are free tell me..I have plans..I am thinking you to invite today

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      6. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        Yeah, right!!

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      7. kalyansparks Avatar

        But it’s actually in another galaxy.can you afford to come there..or should o send some aliens to pick you

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      8. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        I think I am not in the mood to travel to your different galaxies.
        I think, I will spend my Sunday, peacefully at home, reading!

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      9. kalyansparks Avatar

        Hmmm..but already tell me when you sleep?? Oh my god you won’t sleep know…I thought of taking your soul while body is sleeping

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  6. Prashasti Patel Avatar

    Someone also asked to check that.. but still I can’t find it.. help where it is.? I m using only mobile app..

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    1. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

      In mobile app you will find an option view site and another one is view admin at the bottom. Just click on view admin. There you would find the spam index

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      1. Prashasti Patel Avatar

        Ohk.. thank you.. ☺

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  7. Gouri (Gourav Anand) Avatar

    You are absolutely right moushmi, I have also witnessed the same.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      I don’t know what is with this spam?

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  8. Sonal Dugar Avatar

    You cannot lose people Moushmi, sometimes its just that people lose track over themselves. I may not have written any post since many days but I never miss out on any of your posts, literallyyyy! Just like the f.r.i.e.nd.s

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  9. Sonal Dugar Avatar

    Ohhh !! I was typing but see I lost my conscious and hit the send button😂😂… But i was saying like all the seasons of f.r.i.e.n.d.s, I can never afford missing out on any of your posts..
    I wish that people who are drifting apart get back to you and you stay happyyyyyyy😊😊😊😊

    Abundant love
    Sonal❤❤

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Thank you so much sonal for always being there.
      I am happy, but I just think what made them stop blogging? Their reason, of course.
      I am hoping to clink on to you for a longer time than this for sure. :-p
      Much love to you.

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  10. buddy71 Avatar

    ditto to all you have said.
    I have been “blogging” for many many years and I just don’t know where they go.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      I know, right? May be they get busy after all but you know what, since I started blogging, I hardly see the people around, whom I met during my initial days except of course for you.

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      1. buddy71 Avatar

        Awwww…thanks. you are sweet

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        Thank you, and I am just being honest.

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  11. Nitin Avatar

    Keep writing.
    It was nice to connect with you.
    And I love the fact that you put legit effort in visiting their profiles. I do the same.

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  12. Vandana Avatar

    It’s sad when good writers lose interest.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      I know, may be they get too busy with life.

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  13. KathrinS Avatar

    Wow, so weird. It is sad when people stop posting, but I can see how a lifestyle change would maybe make blogging difficult. It takes a lot of time! They could maybe explain it, though, so it isn’t so sudden.

    Kathrin — http://mycupofenglishtea.wordpress.com

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Hey Kathrin, thank you for stopping by my blog.
      I know, it takes a lot of time, and a lifestyle change may effect it too. But then I was majorly talkign about those who have not been here for more than 6 months.
      May be they really got busy, who am I to judge.

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  14. rugby843 Avatar

    I agree, check spam folder for your most interested followers

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      I know, right? 🙂

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  15. BookMaidenBlog Avatar

    I apologize. I have been guilty of this too as of late. Life got overwhelmingly busy. Thank you for your awesome posts and kind words😄

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      It was my pleasure.
      Going off for a while is different, and vanishing in thin air is a different matter altogethr.

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      1. BookMaidenBlog Avatar

        That is true😛

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  16. myexpressionofthoughtsblog Avatar

    I will check out too!!

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Sure, someone might be lost there 😀

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  17. Blooming Soul Avatar

    Ohh yes thats very true yesterday itself your comment went to spam section but i keep on checking at the end of each day so no one feels left out.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      That’s great to know,
      I do remember my comment not being published on your site.
      Thanks dear for doing the necessary.

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  18. Cynthia Sage Avatar

    Moushmi, thank you!
    You know, i just started this whole blogging thing and got a lot of support, but for sometime now I’ve been feeling…lackadaisical about the whole thing. Like i want to post, read and leave my comments, but i feel too… You know…i can’t just express it. Maybe too lazy. But thank You for this post, it’s more like a wake up call to me.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      i understand the feeling, sometimes it’s just that there is nothing to post, sometimes there is not the right amount of time, and sometimes other important stuff comes up.
      I am myself sometimes just away from it, I just do not like when I see that people have just vanished away, no more available, no more replies to the comments, no way of reaching them. It’ like the people in our real lives who just stop talking to us, go away from us!
      I thought this, what we have here was different.

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      1. Cynthia Sage Avatar

        What ever the reason, i believe we can always afford to…you know, overcome. Especially with support from everyone of us.
        …i also believe that we have here is different…somehow.

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      2. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

        Yes, I agree, this is absolutely different from the friednships and relations we have outside of this virtual world.

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  19. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder Avatar

    I’ve discovered so many comments in my spam folder! It’s really a wonder how Akisment detects even the comments of regular friends as spam 😦

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      I know, right?
      People who have been in contact for months now, are all of a sudden spam according to it!
      Just wonder how that works!

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      1. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder Avatar

        Really!

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  20. Maniparna Sengupta Majumder Avatar

    Akismet**

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  21. Infinite Living Avatar

    You are right about this 🙂 I have wondered about some virtual friends too.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Thank you 🙂
      It’s just sad we lose some of them.

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      1. Infinite Living Avatar

        You are welcome. True.

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  22. Simply Megan Joy Avatar

    I’m going to check my spam folder right now!
    ~ Megan Joy

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Might help some honest reader.

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  23. ultimatetravel8 Avatar

    I didn’t know I had one. Thanks for the information here.

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Most welcome. you might have actually not been able to view so many honest reviews by readers up till now!

      Like

  24. Sifar Avatar

    I never check my spam folder!!!😨😨

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    1. Moushmi Radhanpara Avatar

      Then you should.

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